Love is fake
Hey Thinkers!
Imagine the feeling when you see that one person sitting over there. How is it possible to have such beautiful eyes? The feeling you get when you see that smile, not to talk about the laugh... The feeling of comfort you get when you cuddle, and how it can be so amazing to just be around each other even if you don't do anything in particular.
Love can be experienced in different ways, it can be between family, friends, or the one we will think about today, romatic love.
Personally, I think the word "love" is used to casually. Some people say they love people after talking to them for a week, some people say they love someone at the same time they abuse them, and some people say they love someone just because that person said it first, and they feel the need to say it back. And that is not real love.
Many people claim to love their partner/crush/others just because of their personality, which is cute, but in most cases I don't belive it. If it was true that people love each other just for their personality, society would not look like it does. Right now, most couples are one male, and one female. It is definetly getting more and more common to see F/F and M/M relationships, but most people have a preference in what gender they date. So if it is real love, how big is the chance, that all of your life you have dated this gender, and the person you love just for their personality happens to be that same gender? Not very big since it's a 50/50 chance of which gender your soulmate will be.
Which brings me to my next point, only loving one person at the time? If you have two parents in your life, or two or more siblings, you hopefully love them all, at the same time, but not necessarily the exact same way.
If romantic love was just about personality, and you have "loved" the people you have dated, how big is the chance of you not loving two or more people at the same time? And if we loved someone, why would you get mad if that person finds joy in being with someone else instead, or at the same time as being with you? I do NOT think it is okay for people to cheat on someone in a 2-person relationship where you have agreed on being with each other and no one else, but if "love" was real, why would we be selfish and not let people find joy in being with others? If love was real, "normal" relationships between two persons would not exist.
This is just my opinion, and something I think about sometimes, can you see my point of view? What do you think about love? What do you think about what I just said?
Think!
